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Renee Young Blake, affectionately known as The Nugget Dropper, is a Christian author, speaker, teacher and soul whisperer. With wisdom wrapped in wit, she delivers truth that gently convicts and deeply comforts. Her mission? To help women reset their rhythm, silence the noise, and find restoration in every season of life. Whether she's dropping a nugget or a whole revelation, Renee's words don't just inspire--they shift atmospheres.
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He Told Me to R.E.S.T. isn't just a book--it's a divine blueprint for women called to release, reset and rebuild.
This space is first of many rooms God is opening. Through nuggets of truth, soul whispers, and Spirit-led encouragement, The R.E.S.T. Movement ™ is here to prepare hearts and expand borders.
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A NUGGET FROM He Told Me to R.E.S.T. (Get your copy below)
NUGGET #127 (April 2026)
Teach People How To Treat You
Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets. Matthew 7:12 KJV
No two people are the same. I don’t care if you are identical twins and can speak the same words together at the same time, they are not the same. We are spiritual beings with a soul living in a body and so we can never expect anyone to fully understand who we are and what we need. We can never expect anyone to know everything about us, truthfully, we don’t even know everything about ourselves. We learn about ourselves through situations and circumstances. We learn what we like and don’t like by our introduction and experience to things throughout our lifetime. When we experience something, we don’t like, “hmm note to self”. We may not cut it off right away because sometimes the first impression is the wrong impression. It’s like a particular food; it may be the way it's prepared that causes you not to like it. It could be the seasoning used that caused you not to like it, so you try it again. Turns out you just don’t like it so you learn to say no thank you because you don’t enjoy it. That’s easy, right? But what if you have determined someone’s behavior towards you is something you don’t like. You don’t like the nickname they’ve given you. You don’t like the way they greet you. You don’t like the way they treat you. You let it slip the first time because maybe you took it the wrong way, but you begin to realize what you see as a problem, an issue this person doesn’t see as a problem at all. Here is the pivotal moment that will change everything.
You have to determine the relationship. Is this someone you will remain in connection with? Is this someone who remains a part of your journey in some capacity? If the answer to these two questions is yes, then you must step and clear the air right away. I know, no one likes to confront because we’ve made confrontation a negative word. But the truth is to confront just means to reason together. If we stop seeing each other as a problem and allow the issue to be the problem, we could solve the world’s problem. Take the issue and put it on the table and have a discussion. Just addressing that you know they didn’t mean any harm, however, you don’t like when they say…, you don’t like it when they do… Whatever it is, put it on the table. Now what happens after this determines what decision you will make. A person who truly values your relationship will consider what you've said and make the necessary adjustment. Someone who isn’t willing to make a “reasonable” adjustment, is telling you how you feel is not important or a priority to them. Now you have to determine if this is a deal breaker. I can tell you if you don’t stand firm, they will continue to mismanage your relationship because your allowance is giving them a pass to continue and not change. Explore the Nugget: Who have you given a pass because you have not established any boundaries? Is their relationship worth keeping? Then pray and ask God to give you wisdom on how to address them so you can repair the relationship that they don’t even know is in disrepair.