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Renee Young Blake, affectionately known as The Nugget Dropper, is a Christian author, speaker, teacher and soul whisperer. With wisdom wrapped in wit, she delivers truth that gently convicts and deeply comforts. Her mission? To help women reset their rhythm, silence the noise, and find restoration in every season of life. Whether she's dropping a nugget or a whole revelation, Renee's words don't just inspire--they shift atmospheres.
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He Told Me to R.E.S.T. isn't just a book--it's a divine blueprint for women called to release, reset and rebuild.
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The Nugget Dropper's Wall of Wisdom This isn't just inspiration--it's impartation. Every nugget on this wall is a spark of revelation designed to reset your soul, revive your mind, and remind you that your next breakthrough may come in a sentence.
A NUGGET FROM THE UPCOMING BOOK
NUGGET #84 (AUGUST 2025 )
YOUR EXPECTATION IS NOT MY OBLIGATION
[1] Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. [8] Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law. Romans 13:1,8 KJV
Getting older should equal getting wiser but I can tell you, that is NOT always the case. At the time God gave me this nugget I was approaching another decade in two weeks. In reflection, I am grateful for the gift of wisdom. I am grateful for the ability to see and discern things now, that at a younger age I did not see. You should try to learn something new everyday. I love growth and an opportunity to develop and mature. A chance to change and to evolve into better. I have found that this thing I'm going to share with you can hinder your progression. Allowing other people’s expectations to become your obligation.
Have you ever felt the need to fit in, a need to belong, a need to be accepted? Yes indeed, on this question, I've just moved to the front of the line. I have had to search within again and again to finally find this place where I can say I am truly over it. Just because I’ve always done it. Just because you could always depend on it. Just because after all this time you still expect it, please know it is not my obligation. If it doesn’t feel right to me. If it doesn't fit in the plan God has for me. If God can’t get the glory, you can forget me, being a part of your story. We live in misery trying to be somebody else's expectation. We make time to do for them, what they don't even do for themselves. We work ourselves to the bone and they will leave us all alone, worn out, tired and not even offer us a drink of water. Word to the wise, learn to choose you, not selfishly but just be self-aware. Stop allowing other people’s desires to cause you unnecessary discomfort. When you begin to choose you, that’s choosing life. When you choose you, you're choosing God, because God chooses You every day He allows you to wake up. I’m not saying you shouldn't do for others. I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard to meet the needs of others. I am saying check yourself. Check your motives AND theirs. Make sure what you're doing is in line and aligned with what the Father wants you to do. Sometimes we are—too much, and doing—too much and it will leave us out of touch with reality, and God's truth. Sometimes we have motives that are hidden and we do things for reasons that are not God approved. Seek God and free yourself. It's an ever evolving process and a skillset it takes time to attain. Knowing and growing is a great space to occupy. It will help you live free. So come and join me on the growth train. Choo choooooo, all aboard! You can do it. I know you can! I know you can. Who do you need to give notice that they should not expect "IT" anymore? Whatever the "IT" is! It's time to give them notice!